Simple and profound – What agreements have you made with yourself and your team? It starts with you, you can only hold someone at the level you care to account. Marilou is a member of the Ohio REALTORS Board of Directors and former chairman of the organization`s communications committee. Feel free to contact Marilou to see if coaching is what you need. Many of our coaching clients ask us for book recommendations, especially for leadership. Don Miguel Ruiz`s Four Accords are probably the book we recommend most often – and it`s one of our all-time favorites. It is powerful, deep and gives you a framework to do your best. If you put these four agreements into practice and think about them, you will start to trust yourself more. And instead of trying to do your best, you have other perspectives to help you become better and be a more effective leader. The term spirituality is enticed with connotations that keep people on the length of the arms of self-improvement. Some hear about spiritual coaching in the treatment of addiction and think that he is dealing with a religion or a new age. It`s not just the words we use; It is also about how we behave. Ruiz calls this the most important of agreements because it encourages us to take responsibility for what we do and what we say.
To remain true to this principle, we should always heed our words before speaking and do our best to ensure that these words help the people around us. It`s easier to make changes if you`re not overwhelmed and can focus on one thing at a time. So choose a deal each week for the next four weeks. For example, focus on being flawless for a whole week with your word and diary about it. Or focus on not taking things in person. And the fourth chord, always doing your best, is almost like the combination of all. Because if you do your best, you will be more and more aware of how you work from one moment to the next, meetings, interactions with interaction. You`ll have powerful questions like: Marilou Butcher Roth owns MBR Group, a coaching and training company that works primarily with REALTORS, which wants to work and live in a more inspired place.